Let’s be honest – talking about our sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries can sometimes be a bit awkward. But what if there was a fun, easy way to dive into those juicy conversations? Well, here’s where we welcome to the world of play sheets!
Play sheets can be a handy tool for helping you and your partner explore what you’re into, what you’re curious about, and where you draw the line - without any awkwardness.
Sounds pretty nice, right? And guess what? We’ve put a special surprise in there for you– a ready-to-use Sinful Play Sheet, available for download!
So come along with us on this journey to learn what play sheets are, how to use them and how to create your very own!
So, What’s a Play Sheet, Anyway?
A play sheet is like a personalised menu of your sexual appetites. Hmmm… Hungry yet?
It’s a questionnaire that covers a range of activities, from mild to wild, allowing you and your partner to share what you’re into, what you’re curious about, and what’s totally off-limits.
By filling one out, you’re not just setting the stage for some fun nights; you’re also ensuring everything is consensual and comfortable for both of you.
How to Use a Play Sheet
1 - Fill it Out Separately
Each partner should fill out their own play sheet independently. If you're both doing it at the same time, we recommend doing it in different rooms—this will ensure honest and uninfluenced answers.
2 - Share and Discuss
Once both sheets are complete, take some time to sit together and discuss your answers.
This is the perfect time to ask questions, seek clarification, and understand each other's perspectives.
Before having this conversation, it is crucial that you are both comfortable, relaxed, and open to discussing your desires and boundaries.
3 - Bring an Open Mind and Let Go of Judgment
Sexual conversations can be vulnerable and deeply personal. A person might have gone a long time with particular desires, fantasies and curiosities without sharing them with anyone due to, e.g., embarrassment or fear of judgment.
Being open-minded ensures that these conversations are approached with empathy and a willingness to understand your partner's perspective. It encourages honest and transparent communication, allowing both of you to share your thoughts and feelings freely.
4 - Revise Regularly:
Desires, boundaries, and sexual preferences may change over time, which is why we recommend revisiting your play sheets periodically to update your preferences and ensure continued mutual understanding and pleasure.
How to Create Your Own Play Sheet
Creating a customised play sheet can be a fun and creative way to explore your relationship. Here are some things to include in your DIY play sheet:
1- Start with Open-Ended Questions: Include questions that allow for deeper reflection, like "What's a fantasy you've never shared and want to try?" or "How do you feel about dirty talk?"
2- Pick Your Categories: Include different types of sexual interests and activities, like sensory play, bondage, role play, or aftercare preferences. Be sure to cover a variety of activities to get a full picture.
3- Make it Easy to Answer: Add a rating system so you and your partner can easily communicate your comfort and enthusiasm for each activity (e.g., "Yes, Maybe, No" or "This or That" options).
4- Leave Space for Notes and Requests: Include space for any additional comments or notes that might not fit into the standard questions or that might not have been included.
Play Sheets Are for Everyone
While play sheets are a must-have in BDSM dynamics, they’re also a brilliant tool for any couple looking to dive deeper into their sexual relationship.
They can make those sometimes-awkward conversations easier by giving you a roadmap to follow. And who knows? You might just discover a new fantasy or two along the way.
So, are you ready to get closer to your partner and spice things up? Grab our Sinful Play Sheet or create your own, fill it out, and let the sexy adventures begin! You can thank us later.
