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    Updated:07/02/2024

    Sindex by Sinful - Do We Speak the Same Love Language?

    The United Kingdom is full of happy relationships with 85% of Britons saying that they are happy in their current relationships. And we are pretty good at expressing this to each other.

    55% of Britons in relationships tell their partners that they love them every day. But how do we actually also express our love for each other? Out of the five love languages – physical touch, appreciative words, attention & time, favours, and gifts – Britons seem to agree that physical touches, appreciative words, and attention & time are the way forward. Flowers and small favours, on the other hand, are not very direct ways to a British heart.

    But something also indicates that men can benefit from replacing a small pat on the bum with giving their partner two minutes of undivided attention. Because while 32% of women prefer that their partner expresses their love by giving her time, only 25% of men tend to express their love in this manner.

    No matter who you ask, it remains essential to remember to kiss, hug, and caress each other. Intimacy is key to a well-functioning relationship for 95% of Britons and it affects most of us negatively if we aren’t intimate with our partner for a longer period of time.

    More than 4 out of 5 Britons are satisfied with their relationship

    85%
    9%
    5%
    1%
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    Satisfied
    Neither satisfied nor dissatisfied
    Dissatisfied
    I don't know/I don't want to answer
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    95% of Britons think intimacy is important for a well-functioning relationship
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    57% of Britons say it affects them negatively, when they’re not intimate with their partner for a longer period of time

    55% of Britons tell their partner that they love them on a daily basis 

    55%

    Daily

    25%

    Weekly

    8%

    Monthly

    4%

    Less than monthly

    5%

    Only on special occasions

    3%

    I don't know / I do not want to answer

    The love language of Britons: Appreciative words is the preferred love language in the United Kingdom

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    35%

    With appreciative words, e.g. compliments and recognition

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    27%

    With attention and time, e.g. when you spend quality time together or go on a date

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    24%

    With physical touches, e.g. kisses and hugs

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    8%

    With small favours, e.g. your partner doing the dishes or grocery-shopping on the way home

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    3%

    With presents, e.g. flowers

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    Women prefer appreciative words, and men express their love that way

    27% of women prefer their partner to express their love through appreciative words, and 27% of men say they most often express love for their partner through appreciative words

    Preferred love languages across the countries in the Sindex

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    40%

    France: attention and time

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    35%

    UK: appreciative words

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    31%

    Denmark: physical touch

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    29%

    Norway: physical touch

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    28%

    Sweden: appreciative words

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    27%

    Finland: physical touch / appreciative words

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